well, we got back together and it really feels different from
last time. Now, he's come clean on his "secrets" of smoking and
drinking which I absolutely hate. So everytime we meet, I can smell
it from his breath (even if there isn't, I will still somehow feel
that there is). I tried to be cool about it, but i realised that I
can't. It really takes a lot of effort to overcome the shock that
he is gonna be like this for quite some time (I dun think he will
ever quit, there is no drive).
Somehow, I feel rather cheated that i have to accept this because I
came into this relationship because i tot he was a non
smoker.
I feel really at a loss and I really dont want to hear things like,
" if you love him, you will accept him for what he is" crap because
I know that it is not fair to me. He knows I hate smoking. So "if
he really loves me, why doesnt he quit?"
Anyone been in this kind of situation before?
