DimSum:
Guess so ... anyway ... i am not trying not to let him affect my
life .. though i would really love to know if he has a girlfriend
when he is trying to court me ... anyway ..
guess its the thing of the past ..
i hope i can erase all this ... and get on ..
but to like a person .. its easy .. but to forget a person .. its
almost a lifetime ..
especially when i am a very very down to earth person ..i am too
much of a thinker ..
wish me luck ;D
Ahh.. a fellow goat. ;D
Alright, here's the thing... you're affected by all these
situations and encounters because of one major failing, I've done
it before too... it's called "reading too deeply between the
lines"
When you try to decipher every thing he says or does, you get
tensed up.. and sometimes, it might not be him who is acting
strangely.. but rather it is a reaction derived from your behaviour
towards him.
If you're planning to not let him mess up your emotions, then do it
once and for all.
Take a firm stand, and treat him like a friend. He might be doing
the same to you, because some friendships are able to pick up from
where they leave off...
Think about it. If you were right, and he is interested in you.
Would the two of you really be compatiable in a romantic
relationship? Maybe compatiable isn't the word I'm looking for..
how about this...
"will the relationship work out into something that's worth
exchanging 6 years of friendship for?"
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