[...Love is like jazz: You make it up as you go along, and you act
as if you really knew the song, but you don't and you never will,
so you flaunt your mistakes and you make them until they were
you...]jazmyn[/B]
Exactly that, - love is about YOU. The problem with the mass
media and consumerism in general is that they propagate the
illusion that everyone should be dreaming of a tall, broad
shouldered hunk or some pale long haired wisp, bouquets of flowers
or candlelight dinners. Such notions are a travesty of the real
thing. Who you love, how you love - that's the ultimate expression
of your individuality and uniqueness. They will try to ply you with
set dinners and package deals, - no brainer solutions, ignore them.
Take the time to figure out what it all means, what makes this
thing that the both of you share so unique and special. And if it's
love*, it will let you know who you really are.
*I won't use the term "true love" here, because as far as I'm
concerned love is true or it's not love at all.
