yolanda: i've got a question to ask u, if not a few......
what do u mean by getting over ur ex? as in forgetting him
(physically) totally, or as in erasing the memories of u being with
him? or do u mean just basically getting rid of feelings u have for
him?
one thing for sure, memories will always be there. u can't erase it
away, u can only store it someplace deep within the mind. u can try
pushing it deep down within that pit, but somehow, (i realised) it
will always come back someday. tt's y it's called
memory........recalling and remembering those memories
(bittersweet) will no doubt bring some amount of hurt (reminded tt
u lost him) to u, but it's inevident. looking back, i assure u tt u
will smile at those memories u had........=)
forgetting/getting over those feelings are the hard part...but i
guess, like they say, time can heal everything. mebbe not totally
everything, but it can make u sort of feel numb bout the whole
thing......
anywayz, to forget ur ex (physically), (it worked for me, albeit
being seemingly mean n heartless) stop all forms of contact with
him.....until the day tt u're sure tt u've gotten over ur feelings
for him....
hope the crap i've said helps, thou' i think it won't. =)) hee~