HardRock SG I suppose most of you will say based on instinct. But how many of you actually give up calling the gal based his instinct?? Or would persist in calling her till she tell you straight she rejects you? I mean no harm trying to "pressurise" her to say it out to you, but to some of you, like me, it takes bit of thick-skin to do so..... The reason why I ask is bcos the instinct may be wrong, rite?? As for gals, would you tell the guy straight you rejects him if he keeps calling you NO MATTER how you hint him??? Haiz...
Bear SG Was rejected once, and a friend was told to relay the message, so I know I was rejected lorz.. hee hee Never ask for the reason. But reject is reject already. Ask for the reason also would not help rite?? My personal thinking ------------------ Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear [This message has been edited by Bear (edited 12 October 2000).]
hanabishi SG A straight NO is a kindness on the part of the female. It is relatively quick and painless. In between YES and NO are a million shades of grey which will leave you running around in circles in your mind. That's what's killing, the never knowing for sure. The uncertainty and doubt. Makes for many sleepless nights.
windcloud SG Hi, I think it will be straightforward on the part of the gal. She will not wish to speak more to u, or try to go out with u when u asked for a date. A polite gal will not even speak out so sometimes it is difficult to tell. I think it is good to be friends first and know each other more before deciding. There is no harm in telling her that u r already in love with her when both of u are close enough to say such things. I do really hope that u will find a gal of ur dreams soon!
moose SG If you are rejected,then get on with life,don't think you will end up like those romantic novels where the guy finally gets the girl after repeated rejections,this is real life.So time to continue with life,heehe ------------------ If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you on my plate, I would eat you up and pray the Lord, i put on some weight If I knew it would be the last time that I see you drop onto the floor, I would call the waiter over and ask for 1 more. If I knew it would be the last meal before i go to sleep, I would sleep soundly knowing you are in my stomach deep. ~~~ Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on
jliu SG A gal rejects you when you reject her. No one is perfect, so when falling in love, fall in love with the person as a whole, including her faults and attractive factors...this way, you get a say in what you can do with her together in the bed room
Inzaghi SG mostly the ger will say: we can only be friends....so u next step is to determine do u still wanna be friend with her.... as for me, me dun believe in wasting time, i will just dump her aside...hehe...but hor, after a period of time of MIA or avoiding, she may come back to question u whether is her still ur friend!!!...haha
yuppiez SG i think u should noe it when she is veri mean to u and do hurtful things to u…obviously not even ur frz will do such thinh rite???
cybersurfer SG hmmm.... tough don normally get rejected..... ------------------ The sea is not enough
Bear SG lucky guy... But does it meant that u change a lot of gf liaoz?? he hee ------------------ Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
bigpimp SG as usual...just wait for tyhe right time...if you are impatient..then go geylang first,,,you will be patient and sensitive after that... watever ------------------ life sucks and so do you
Larry SG If she starts to "slip away" from u (if u get my drift), then she might be trying to get away from u. Then "good luck".
