I do empathise wif u... having to see the person u love to be
betraying u... It's really a terrible thing to happen especially
when ur examz are round the corner... Can't understand how u feel..
How confuse u are at this moment...
Going straight to the point... I haf to admit that ur bf is
actually double dating.. Coz no guy will ever hold the hands of
another ger when walking, no matter how close they are... In fact
in my point of view, whether a guy has gf or not he shld not be
holding a fren's hands. Moreover, if u put urself in the ger's
position, I dun think u will let a fren to hold ur hands too rite??
Hence it's natural that if u r holding hands that means both of u
will haf some r/s. Even when a guy ask a girl out on a one-to-one
basis, the 2 will not hold hands... The answer is pretty
obvious.
Well abt the going out wif ur gf on a holiday part.. I think in ur
bf's view, he is going out wif his gf on a holiday. Sadly his real
gf is not u...
However, in another situation where both pple are true to each
other, it does not mean holiday, u will be spending time with each
other... Of coz sometimes it means that either one could be
spending time with one's frens, be it male or female, even alone on
a one-to-one basis.. coz I believe both shld haf their own personal
time, for themselves or wif their frens.
If I'm caught in such a situation, I will explain to my gf with the
other girl by my side immediately. It's the very least that I shld
be doing in that kind of position. I mean it's a natural thing to
do, in order not to haf my gf misunderstood me.
Sorry I will be very direct here, coz I think u need something to
kick him out of ur mind. In ur case, I think it better for u to
leave him. totally cut off from him, coz he is just making use of
u.. either u as the spare or betraying ur feelings... Furthermore,
from the fact that he did not even call u to explain or even turn
round to give his statement shows how much he cares for u...
This kind of guy.. can throw him away... Com'on u deserve someone
better... Someoen who treats u well... someone who respects u...
Not him. I dun see any of such qualities in him... Show him that u
can stand on ur feet without him. he's just another passing cloud
in ur life... hua bei fen wei li liang, divert all ur attention now
on ur studies... that's mroe important... show it to him that even
when such a thing happen, it will not hinder ur studies. Prove it
to him, he is nothing to u... That should be that way..
Well, if need someone to console, can always get me at
'[email protected]' or icq me at '19569168'. be willing to
lend u from ear to shoulder.
All the best for ur 'O'... concentrate on it. And forget abt him.
this sort of pple best if his other gf also leave him... teach him
a lesson to be a nice gentleman...
Sorry if my words are too harsh.. but I just want to u froget abt
him and the matetr.. coz hecan't get u anywhere to be a successful
person in life...
take care...
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