I can understand y u felt insecure, becoz u dun really know
whether if this love can carry on or whether if this love is worth
carrying on or not. Maybe this qns was popped in ur mind becoz of
pple the number of times that both of u go out, or maybe it's becoz
the entend of not holding hands when u go out. All these led to
insecurity of ur r/s. As humans, I think it's becoz of our nature,
that wants to haf someone to hug and hold physically. Whether we
haf a gf/bf or not, we still need someone to care abt us and love
us...
The fortunate thing is that, now u haf an idea of wat sort of r/s
problem that u will be facing. U can be sure in whether u can
understand her situation in the future or not. If u can put urself
in her position, then maybe both of u may haf a blissful
future.
However, if u say that u r unsure if u shld be giving it up or not,
then I think chances is that ur love for her has shifted... but
hey, no worries... It doesn't mean that u r fickle-minded in love.
It's just that ciumstances made u feel uncertain abt the r/s. Try
to understand her position, but it will take a lot of
patience.
One way when both of u go out, u can drop hints to hold hands and
things like sort... Maybe if u see something new, u will be more
willing to wait for her.. Maybe just tell how u feel to her... and
Tell her that u understand her position, and will not force her o
do things. Coz in a r/s, both haf to be truthful and able to get
the load of each other's mind.. then it's called love...
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