ahhhh...i'm back....
okiez, wat i was going to say has basically been covered by our
dear BEEG Bear here. =) hahaha
but i just hope to emphasize one point. THINK it thru' clearly.
have a HEART to MIND talk with urself. ask urself clearly wat do u
wan. dun get angry so easily, it's easier to think with a CLEAR
head/mind.
finally, after having the mind-heart talk, if u finally decide to
still go after ur ex, locate the problems that was present
previously. think of ways u are going to solve these
problems.
then have a heart to heart talk with ur ex. bare ur heart n soul to
her. not exactly la, just exaggerating abit. but basically, asure
her that u won't break her heart again, and identify the problems
with her. DISCUSS with her how the TWO of u are going to solve it
TOGETHER. okiez? =) dun make it all UR decision. =) democracy, let
her have her say in this, coz the relationship concerns the both of
u.
talk in peace. dun flare up so easily. =) calm down, and when u
feel a surge of temper rising, force it down, take deep breaths.
look at her and remember how much u love her. =)))
u noe.......everytime a couple quarrels, or more so in a case where
the bf gets angry at the gf, the gf hurts alot......of coz a
relationship does have it's ups n downs, but it hurts to have ur bf
scolding u and flaring up at u lo...and whenever there are
arguements, i believe both parties won't feel nice lo.......there's
alotta hurt done here la....so, he mu gong chu is still da
best!
PEACE!
