No charm mean no chance?

samsung SG

I have a problem with knowing gals. as i am not good looking not many gals want to know me. so can you guys out there help me to think of a way pls?

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Forgiven is a true way to long lasting love.

Crysania SG

Maybe u can participate in activities where u have more chances to interact with ppl and have a better chance for them to know what kind of a person u are inside. Smile

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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...**

butterflyer SG

I know one guy who is not so good-looking yet he got a pretty girlfriend!I have talked with him before so I know he is basically nice. Maybe you should try to polish up your personality.

moose SG

Charm does not make up 100% whether a girl wants you or not,other factors like personality come into play also,eeheh Very Happy

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Drooling is not to be drooled to the extreme.
Burping is not to be done to the extreme.
If eating is done to the extreme.
Your tummy will bring you to the toilet.
Razz ~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on

Bear SG

Relationships that is heavily depended on looks is not one that will last. It's personality, that a girl will feel good when she's wif u. Looks will gif a good first impression to a girl. But normally it will just stop there. The most is only exchange of fone no. and stuff. After knowing that u haf no character inside, the girl will still leave u. However if u haf a good character, and pple may not get notice u in the first instance, but time will tell them that u are the dependable sort of guy. Girls will look for security in a relationship, instead of the looks. Girls are not that dumb to go into looks. They will also think if u r the kind which they can fall back on when they are ur frens.

To get to know gers, maybe like wat Crysania mention, that is to be more sporting and join activites. Becoz u and I are similiar that is we aren't good looking. We can only show our hearts to pple. Not saying that I have a good heart inside lahz, but improving...

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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear

t|rEd SG

eh…charm? wat exactly is charm? issit not only a word with 5 letters, starts with a c, and ends with an m? crap. hee~ =) anywayz, c-riously speaking, whether or not a person possess a certain kinda charm depends on individuals. some people may say u have no charm, mebbe even alotta pple say that (sorry, no offence, anyway, i dunno u enuff to judge) but sometimes, u dun need that kinda charm to attract gers. or actually, namely chiobus. =) hee~ yep yep. some gers are actually attracted to the quiet, kinda guys, i mean, just to mention some la. but really, such gers, hard to find lo, but please dun give up hope. be urself. i believe that’s charm enuff…..=) sm|LeZ

Dragonlance SG

Like moose said... Charm does not exactly make up the relationship. There are other things on which you can excel on. Smile

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I look beyond the empty cross
forgetting what my life has cost
and wipe away the crimson stains
and dull the nails that still remain
More and more I need you now,
I owe you more each passing hour
the battle between grace and pride
I gave up not so long ago
So steal my heart and take the pain
and wash the feet and cleanse my pride
take the selfish, take the weak,
and all the things I cannot hide
take the beauty, take my tears
the sin-soaked heart and make it yours
take my world all apart
take it now, take it now
and serve the ones that I despise
speak the words I can't deny
watch the world I used to love
fall to dust and thrown away.

Essence of Innocence, Dragonlance

aaron84z SG

i don't think i've got much charms either, but i do know alot of people as i IRC a hell of a damn lot... well ... irc's just another place where you can know girls and boys alike ... you know all about the good and bad points of IRCing so i'm not gonna touch on it ... this is just a suggestion~

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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ...

mikegk_76 SG

This I totally agree, dun say u had no charms, the gals I knew go for guys who knows how to bring themselves out, I mean inner beauty not only their charms, charms take up only about 10%, ok?

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

samsung SG

Thanks everyone for your helpful reply. just want to highlight some points. if girl dun go for looks, and me is basically quite a friendly guy..how come when i approach them to chit chat, they refuse? ya. personality counts too and i brushing up it everyday.
what do you girls normally think of a guy wanting to befriend you?

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Forgiven is a true way to long lasting love.

moose SG

Maybe it's the way you do the approach as i presume the delivery is ok as you said you quite frenly mah,basically,just approach with a warm frenly smile,not a sinister smirk or a perverted grin,ehehe Very Happy

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Drooling is not to be drooled to the extreme.
Burping is not to be done to the extreme.
If eating is done to the extreme.
Your tummy will bring you to the toilet.
Razz ~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on

t|rEd SG

hahaha like wat moose said, it's ur approach lo. =) 'pends on how n who u approach. =)
if u were moose, i think i'd most prolly think pervert n walk off. =) hahaha no offence.

Bear SG

There's always pple out there who feel funny when toking to strangers. So maybe they are just ones of them. but hey, it's not that all the gers are like that. Maybe a better approach, maybe ur sudden approach gifs them a scare of sth... some pple just cannot ake it. Anyway.. even if they tok to u becozof ur looks. then forget about them. There are other gers out there who are more deserving of ur smiles and 'Hi's. This is only one instance.. surely u can't juz put one failure and deny the chance of many coming opportunities rite?? Keep it up.. u r doing great!!!

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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear

mikegk_76 SG

U r absolutely rite, Bear, me feels mayb your approach is wrong or perhaps the gals u wanna befriend are too introvert and conservative, thus dun like to talk to strangers, try again, approach them with a smile, they will surely reply u if u r sincere. Another thing, dun try to act when u r in front of gals, they'll know it, juz tat they dun say it out, juz b your natural self, no need to change yourself for gals, surely there'll b one who'll admire your personality and character, juz tat the time's still not up yet for u, dun worry so much, ok...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

moose SG

Win liaoz lor,i give advice kena suanz,ahahaah Very Happy

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Drooling is not to be drooled to the extreme.
Burping is not to be done to the extreme.
If eating is done to the extreme.
Your tummy will bring you to the toilet.
Razz ~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on

t|rEd SG

moose: hee~ =) paiseh la. okiez okiez. u come here gib more advice, me promise me no suan u. coz wait pple say i drive away our great uncle moosey agony. =) hee~

honggggg SG

Well I don’t know about approaching gals to befriend them, but I’ve come across these people a few times b4 and generally they don’t give me a good impression. The first few times I tried talking but after that I gave up and asked them to leave me alone.

moose SG

Uncle?I not that old lah,kena suanz again,ahaha Very Happy

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Drooling is not to be drooled to the extreme.
Burping is not to be done to the extreme.
If eating is done to the extreme.
Your tummy will bring you to the toilet.
Razz ~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on

Bear SG

Well I don't know about approaching gals to befriend them, but I've come across these people a few times b4 and generally they don't give me a good impression.
The first few times I tried talking but after that I gave up and asked them to leave me alone.

Well, sometimes it's not all the pple that we meet will always be our frens. Mostly will be juz another passing cloud in our lives. Good pals are hard to come by, that's y we cherish them thru'out our lives.

If we expect everyone that we meet to be frens, then I think it will be wise not to visit Orchard Road. haa haa...

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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear

t|rEd SG

moose: where got suan u la. =) but since u kept asking for me to suan u, okiez lo….dun complain hor. =) hahaha