dearest yuppiez ah.....eh, pardon me if i'm a little harsh here,
but i hope u dun depend on us too much lo. u know urself best. we
can only provide u with certain amount of advices, but we cannot
give u the decision. it is urs to make, not ours. =)
ok, now, as to ur question......erm.......(toopid/lazy bear. tot u
bery free one, how come neber answer yuppiez qn?!!!) hee~ *sheepish
gW|nZ* anywayz, eh......ah.....er.....*scratches her head* i think
one question u could ask urself is, do u really like this other
guy? or issit just because he's very very nice to u, and he has
TOUCHED ur heart. which means, u dun necessary like him in that
sense lo. get my drift? hope u did.
ok, no let's get down to basics....er, gonna be some rather
personal questions. no needa answer me, but just ask urself and
force urself ot answer lo. "zi4 wo3 jiao1 dai4"
1) wat is ur main purpose/motive of getting involved in a
relationship
2) who do u really love.....
3) issit really love?
i think if u have answered the above questions, mebbe it's time to
make a decision. but first, try to put urself in ur present bf's
shoes. =) look at things in his perspective. just look at this from
different perspectives lo. mebbe even thru' the 2nd guys eyes. c
how he looks at it.
oya, it won't be a very very easy decision, but just a bit of
warning. mebbe not warning la, a small reminder. u may tend to try
to COMPARE the qualities of the two guys. not that i'm saying u
shudn't, but issit fair for u to do so? afterall they are two
completely different individuals. =))
lastly, good luck and best wishes. =) glad to be remembered. and
hope i have been of help, thou' i dun c how. =)) hahaha
bear:
u habn't given her ur piece of blessing!!! hahaha =)
