To all qin sheng ( including all brudders and sisters)

ray701 SG

Situation occurs like this:
I realli like this gal in class with mi, but never initated any move on her (like individual outings), just during group outings and things like that cos she those study type and sure reject me one cos she wants to study.Anyway, recently, both of us graduated liao and she working now and i waiting for NS. Initially, i started to send her an email asking how's her job and things like that.
And we began to use email to "talk" every 2-1 day or so. But i had not gone out individual with her yet.I tried hinting her by saying things like
"....if i hve a wife like u, ............" and she repply
"no lah,me not good, too talkative.... so better find one not like mi..........." ,get the picture????

So just wondering if i got good chance of getting her anot???? (Not "bo chi", but then want hundred percentage to win this battle)

[This message has been edited by ray701 (edited 11 August 2000).]

FallenSeraph SG

You juz have 2 try asking her how she feels abt u. Let's face it, there's no such thing in life as a hundred % win situation in luv, man. If u tell her now, at least u still have a chance 2 win her heartin hte near future. Juz do it! All the best

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Hold fast to dreams,
For if dreams die,
Life is a broken-winged bird
that cannot fly

Crysania SG

Going NS time not good time to find a gf lah... When you in NS no time to keep her company. Wait till after some time your work more stable then find loh Smile

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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...**

moose SG

When you are in NS,it is going to be tough and also you be under a lot of stress,this could place undue stress on a just newly formed relationship,but of cos if it survives NS,then good for you,but if not,then be prepared for the relationship to be broken,heehe Very Happy

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aaron84z SG

Better wait until after Ns Lor .. or after the how many months … dunno ar. Coz there is not enough time to develop a relationship for you now …

mikegk_76 SG

This I totally agree with Crysania, dun rush into getting a gf while serving NS, u will b very disappointed. Trust me, I'd already served NS, u will neglect her unconciously, mayb what u should do now is juz to keep in contact with her, mayb after your BMT, see whether your vovation in army is the "zo bo" vocatn, then u consider this problem and try to hint to her more directly. it's better this way, from my pt. of view.

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

Atti SG

Ray, sorry u may not like to hear what i am trying to say but yes, like what u have mention, u should be more careful cos yr chances dun seem very high.

As for the reason, think you yrself and the other forumities had already mention.....

I believe u yrself know quite well ..... that's why have been holding back. But u might wanna consider that u may even lost her as a friend when u get enlisted why not give it a go b4 u do? Well but of cos, u must be prepared for everything

Nevertheless, wishing u the best.

Regards

ray701 SG

Thanz all for your help.
I've forget to mention something:I'am going to NS in December so there is at least 3-4 months from now to take action.But dunno wat are my chances?
And this coming Sat, there supposed to be a graduation ceremony for us and that i will get the chance to meet up with her.However wat i is troubled is how should i keep up the conversation with her the moment i meet her( wat to talk on) ,cos we seem to talk everything thru email alreadi and that i get tougue tied with the gal i like.

FallenSeraph SG

There r still lotsa things 2 tok abt... Juz remain cool n be nature... beautiful words will flow from u... RELAX is the key word here. Wink

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Hold fast to dreams,
For if dreams die,
Life is a broken-winged bird
that cannot fly