should I continue to wait for her?:confused:

Darren Tay SG

I'm madly in love with this woman and she told me that she loves me a lot too and cares a lot for me and would one day wanna be with me but she is currently with someone else and she is asking me to wait... should I wait for her or move on? Confused

MayaJade SG

Darren:

do you think she loves you, too? What is she asking you to wait for? I mean, why can't she break up with the bf right away?

I think if both of you love each other and she has a _legitimate_ excuse not to break up with him right away maybe you should consider waiting for her.

Good luck

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-3NiGMA- SG

You poor fella

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ICECOOL SG

Do you currently have another target or someone who loves you?. If so, do not wait. If not, no harm waiting.

weez SG

No Offence....(me scare flaming)
It sound to me that she saying "I love you but you are 25 mins too late.Thus let me enjoy with this guy 1st.take your number."

Come on.....dont be blinded by these sweety words of her.

P.S would u mind waiting for her while she is in the arm of another man???

gno SG

ask yrself, how long do u intend to wait? what happens if another girl comes along? are u going to give up the chance jus becos u r still waiting?

i think u should jus move on. if that woman finally decides that u r the one, and u still feel the same abt her, the 2 of u can get together then.

i dunno abt others, but i feel that "waiting" will only bring u hurt and sorrow, kinda like a "spare tire".

jus my opinion, hope u can do the right thing.

alex SG

u can wait if u got the time, but how long do u intend to wait!!! that’s the question u gotta ask urself, and what’s the chance of winning her, u got to assess

cookie monster SG

i agree with gno and weez,

becoming a spare tyre is not a pleasant thing, could she be using u as a source of entertainment when she is bored with her bf,

i feel that (no offence pls) this gf could not make up her mind to stay on long with a guy, she could not be trusted for what she say.
if she ever broke up with this current bf n be with u, then chances of her dumping u is also high once u have no more marketable value....

be strong, move on pal, why waste ur time on a flower when u have a big forrest behind u?

lighter SG

common, if she truely loves you, she wouldnt want you to wait any second. isn't she afaid that you'll be gone while waiting.

xiaojune SG

hello... wake up man! forget about her! If you are meant to be together, you will be. You think she loves you??? These are a few possibilities...
1. she loves two men at the same time
2. she doesn't want to hurt you
3. she's a selfish bitch
4. she doesn't bear to leave her present bf
5. she's playing a love game

Whatever reason it is, it is meaningless to wait like a fool. You can find someone better!

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aaron84z SG

If I were the Girl ... I'll immediatly leave my current stead and go for you if i really love you ... Why bother staying on ? Unless it is to clear up some odds which would take some days at most ... My advice to you is ... ask her what she really wants ... if she asks you to wait again ... tell her you shall ... but if another girl comes along ... go for her !

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ZincBear SG

hmm.. think carefully..
If she can like u while she is with another guy.. lets say even though u r with her now... do u think that there can be a day whereby she can like another guy too and tells him the same thing???

babyben SG

she is juz using u as a spare. juz in case when she break wit her current bf. she will turn to u. and do u call this love?
think twice

FallenSeraph SG

She's juz two-timing u, my fren. Forget abt her! U can definitely find a better gal than her.

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ColtPython SG

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fedora SG

Darren : I understand wat u mean .. however .. if u DO find someone who interests u .. just GO for it arr!! Give urself a chance =)

moose SG

but the girl seems quite selfish in that she treating him like a spare tyre,my advice is to forget bout her and find someone more worthy of u,eheh Very Happy

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immune SG

Another stupid guy
Go find another gal
& stop wasting time here

Charlie Brown SG

Do not let her to hypnotize you... If she's really loves you.... why she still together with her bf?? I think she threats you like a spare tyre... Go ahead... look for another girl who have no bf and really loves you...