HUUUUGGGE Dilemma

Pooch SG

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[This message has been edited by Pooch (edited 15 July 2000).]

Dragonlance SG

hey... it does not matter what way you swing in life...as long as you know who you truely are... Well since you love that girl so much... why not make your move...the chance will not be there forever you know.
and so what if people calls you gay, it is not as if you want to have sexual intercourse with the other person or anything.

Just believe in yourself and do what you want to do. Remember...there is no role model for being an Individual.

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In your service,
Dragonlance

peiyi SG

If you like the girl, go for her lah! If you don't try, how would you know wether your relationship with her is meant to be in the first place?

Um.. about the gay part. Heck what other people think about you. It's alrite to get attracted to both sexes (depending on what kind of attraction lar). If it's sexual attraction that you feel, them hrm.. kinda hard to say.
Hmm.. you said you used to be from an all boys skool? Well I used to be from an all girls skool. It seems to me that it's quite normal for students in these skools to haf crushes or liking for their fellow skool mates, but that doesn't make them anymore les or gay than normal people. Get wat I mean?

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Killjoy SG

Pooch .. wat do u mean that your friends call you a faggot..and u feel gay..

Is it becos you really like making love ot a guy or is it only becos u have a more feminine side. There is alot of diffecrence you know. IE the difference between a trans and a bi-sexual.

Maybe you are more feminine and that is all ( that is no real homo tendercies) and the reason why that girl is so close to you is becos she treats you like a close girl friend get wat i mean?

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jliu SG

Fortunately, you dont know what you really want. Between a road and a highway, which one would you choose? Why not carry on the highway and see what the scenery has to offer? Big Ocean, many fishes.

Letting go is the hardest part. Why not exchange gifts with the girl you know and take some photographs together? Or even write a letter to her, or anything that keeps you from reminding of her after you get out of JC2?

Don SG

Hi, what rival, give him a kick on his butt and then shout Heehaa! Well, just joking, hmmm...sexuality confusion, well, it is up to yourself to decide who you really are then to judge yourself base on what others have to say, think it over calmly..... Smile

Yours sincerely,
Don

Pooch SG

My heart's been shattered to pieces. I've decided to stop pursuing this relationship. I doubt it'll ever last anyway, though the potential's there. It hurts to see that we're both drifting apart while she's getting closer to the other guy.
However, me and the girl are still on very good terms despite the fact that we've hardly been interacting lately. She has no idea about what's exactly going on. That I love her. Guess some things are better left unknown. Being close to her gives me a really bittersweet feeling. I don't know what to do now except for feeling fucked up deep inside.

[This message has been edited by Pooch (edited 13 July 2000).]

jliu SG

If your close female friend invites you for her wedding, will you attend?

aaron84z SG

Why Not Let her know at least ? Do you want to attend the wedding ... as a groom ? or as a spectactor ? (from earlier msg)
Besides ... being confused about your sexuality is normal in our teenage years ... even at 20+ ... (heard from some counciliars) so what you should do is ... to Court her ! You have a chance ... don't be shy like me ... Go on and strive for your freedom !

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Love is Full Of Difficulties and problems ... even if you like her, she might not like you and vice versa ... and even if you 2 like each other ... there are always problems ... But Never Give up !

stringray SG

Time to look for another wan liao

Hope u can find wan
Good luck

Heeheehee Smile Smile Smile Smile

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