To forgive or not to?

Toshiya SG

Well every 1.....it started like this......
A few days ago,i was in the irc chatting wif a long term irc fren,we get along quite well until one day when i had forgotten to send her something which i promised to sent her.............afterwhich i kept apologising to her .................but do u all now wat she says after my painstaking apologizing? She ask mi whether i have finish saying my bedtimes story........This make mi very upset, frustrated n agitating.... after this incident, i never tok to her any more but there was a bond between us that will never break no matter wat happens...... coz we were in luv wif each other.......... should i forgive n forget?

Crysania SG

Well....when ppl are angry they say all kinds of things...
So, if u really love her...why bother with such trival stuff? How are u going to endure harder times with her if u give up so easily on minor matters?
Wish you all the best... Smile

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My heart is made of glass...
Hard to melt but easy to break...

moose SG

Try and talk to her when things have calmed down,somethings when people are angry,they do or say things they do not mean,so just back down for a few days and try again,she still get same reply,then i guess forget about her lor,hehe Very Happy

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fedora SG

Toshiya: I think that she got slightly agitated by ur many many many apologies =) I think that when u apologised the 1st or 2nd time she got the point.

It's not her fault so no point getting angry with her. Just forgive, forget and try harder to remember wat u've promised her the next time. Nothing touches a lady more than pure sincerity. =) Good luck~

Rohm SG

Toshiya ah Toshiya, it's ur fault lah, words are plentiful but deeds are precious! Since u promised to give her your photos then u must fulfill ur promise mah! U bloody jerk, how can u do this to a gal? I think she likes someone else liao. Besides, knowing u as a friend personally, u're a big flirt, so I don't think it matters to u with one gal more or less rite?

Regards,
UR GOOD FRIEND,
ROhm.

stringray SG

Tok to her for a few times
Find out wat wrong
If still cannot find
time to move on

Smile Smile Smile Smile

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mikegk_76 SG

I think u misunderstood her in the first place. Did she ever used any !!! during your chat? I felt that you shouldn't b so petty, anyway, u r a guy leh...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

phoenix09 SG

first of all....wat izzit that u have promised to send her???izzit very important...well.. i guess u should first send the thing to her and let her cool down first be4 doing anything....

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Was it real or just my fantasy
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WhIrLwInD SG

best for you

aaron84z SG

If this girl was real important to you, you wouldn't have forgotton to send whatever you want to her ... Trust me on that ...
and since you 2 once loved each other ... try to make up and be friends ... and remember ... NEVER apologize too many times ... i remember working in macdonalds and this customer kept apologizing to me ... about 20 sorries in less than 3 minutes ... i still can remember how darn annoying it is ... well ... Take my advice ~
- AaroN^_^ or AaroN-_- on irc