there is no such thing as fair or not fair about love

peace326 SG

i spent 2 yrs of my time with her she finally left me on chinese new yr eve because her long awaited first love is back from oversea after 5 yrs she think she got to gave it a try with the first love . therefore love is selfish i try to recover but i cannot delete after 3mths at the same time i alway attract young girl very confuse

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moose SG

I think the girl is very selfish to make you waste 2 years of your time and your money on her and finally making a decision that is not in your favour Smile ))

alex SG

she has made her decision, so what’s urs now!!!!

peace326 SG

Well my general feeling is try to move on and memory will also pop up now and then therefore i got to endure this stage as without me knowing it i will slowing go into the breakthrough stage whereby i don really wake up with her image in mind constantly. Life is like a lesson if i don learn my lesson i will repeat the lesson again and again till i learn.to hate her will bring no good to me because with hate in onself . THe onself will alway be trap by her. I am learning

ITCH SG

did u know abt the guy b4 u chased her
well if u do then u got to bear the consequences
i am in a similar boat buddy

ICECOOL SG

My opinion is that she is very selfish and bad, she just makes use of you when she feels empty inside and needed someone around her to comfort her and to cherish she. After her love came back, she just drop you off. what a woman...terrible...

I think you should tell her bf about you and her and what happen between you two for the past two years, especially if intimacy is there...

If their love is so strong, it should be able to handle that. If not, she may come crawling back to you..but remember don't accept her anymore.

ICECOOL SG

ITCH also has exp with this?...world is changing man…where has all the good girls went and where has all the bad guys gone.

Dragonlance SG

THE RAINY DAYS ARE SOMEHOW THE HARDEST DAYS FOR ME TO GET THROUGH. MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE OF THE MANY TIMES WE SHARED OUR LOVE AND OUR LAUGHTER IN THE MIDST OF A SOFT SUMMER RAIN;OR MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE I REMEMBER THE WAY YOU LOVED THE FEEL OF THE RAIN ON YOUR FACE; BUT MORE THAN LIKELY, IT'S BECAUSE I SOMEHOW FEEL THAT WHEN IT RAINS, THE ANGELS ARE SHARING MY SORROW AND CRYING WITH ME AT THE LOSS OF THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF MY LIFE....YOU.

I...guess...time will just tell whether it will all work out...

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Love...? Well, it starts with a charming smile, develops into a passionate kiss and ends with a tear. A painful tear.

Essence oF Tears, Dragonlance

prodigal SG

If you love somebody, set her free. If she comes back to you, she is yours forever, if she doesn't, she was never meant to be for you to begin with.......

yours sincerely,
The Prodigal

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"I wish that I could have the love of a woman who could come to my life, lift me from sorrow, depression and loneliness, and push me to higher heights. However, love is not about finding someone to relieve you, but love is about you devoting your heart and soul to love that someone, even if you know that someone do not love you the way you do."
- Prodigal