Have BF or GF and izzit allow to go for another guy or ger?

^ET^ SG

If you have a gf or bf, and when u go out with other ger or guy are (u still go for another ger(<-- for guy (u still allow other guy to woo you)<-- for ger

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NiVleK SG

In relationship matters, I am very zhuan yi. If I have a gf, I will not go after another ger. I feel that if you got a gf and still go after another ger, its not fair for my gf. I dun mind other guys chasing after my gf, cos if she still wants me, our relationship is to stay.I dun believe in being too possesive, i dun wan to let her feel controlled. Neither will i like my gf to control me. We all have the freedom of making friends and hanging around with our pals. Life doesnt revolve around my gf and me only.

Every thing is fated...esp love...

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audlenelee SG

shood noe more frens… open to more choices… but… i won’t..

adrian xtc SG

no, unless u intend to ruin ur relationship with him/her.

LittleMan SG

No, i won't do it cos this concerns 2 issues :

a. my reputation
b. the trust mi and my gf have built up

Both take years to build up but days to break. And once broken, will take double the time to rebuild again, if it can ever be rebuilt, that is.

Atti SG

Well a definite NO …...

^ET^ SG

I agree with all of u all
hehehee
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by the way me also donno wan to put up wat question so anyhow put one
heheheee
oh ya... y under my nick there is a jr-member
and u all have different one???
how to have it????

oakley SG

post > 30 msgs to promote to member and lots lots more to have a special designation…..

ZincBear SG

Well... i guess i agree strongly with littleman....
Trust is so very important in a relationship such that a relationship can crumble without it.....so... build the trust... and dun break it.

SNAFU SG

U must have more then 1 at all times. This iz for security reason ... if u loose 1 .. easy to get replacement ..infact it would be instant replacement.
Even have a few choice and style.... very mind stimulating indeed.... different day wit different person.
U know like having a spare parts ..... comes very handy at times..... u will learn about time management too.
Iz good rite ..... wat do u think???

newwe SG

Depends on how you see it. I think it's ok for me but you should let the other girl/guy know if you are serious about your current gf/bf. If the other party don't mind, then it's ok. She/He must also understand the rule of the "game".

you just have to be sure of what you are doing!!!

Ixion SG

1. Talk to your partner to see how he or she feels about you going on single dates with the opposite sex.

2. Repeat step 1 and get better clarity and assurance if you would like to meet up with ex-s even for kopi.

3. When steps 1 & 2 are laid down firm, inform partner before the event.

4. Be completely open about the friendships with the opposite sex.

5. Let your partner into your life.

6. If you value your partner enough to consider him or her to be your life-time partner, behave like how he or she hopes you would as his or her spouse.

7. Should you personally feel the above takes too much, why are you seriously dating then?

Wink What are you willing to sacrifice for this relationship?

Disclaimer: as all relationships work on different dynamics, this is only a general guideline that has worked well and gain a lil' bit of respect.. Smile Be completely open with your partner ~ I don't think you'd like it if he or she is going out on single dates without telling you.

Dragonlance SG

hehee Love has a funny way of playing with your heart doesn't it... But...Going out with another person while you have a Gf/Bf is a definite No No.

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May God BLESS U!!!

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moose SG

Hmmm,then i guess when you get a wife,you will get another also a few days time as if you lose the 1st one,got replacement as quoted by you above and also provide with different choice and style also right??If you equate a living human being borned with a parents and with feelings to an item to be kept as spare,then i can only say you champion,haahahahahaahahaah(But too bad i am not champion like you and won't do all that you quoted) Razz PPPPP

Crysania SG

Hmmm.....try going after another girl while you have a gf and lose both of them....hehee

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Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart..but if you dun, u might break theirs..