Well i've gone thru that before....my ex have never been a
pillion b4 in her life, so when i told her to hop on my bike, she
will find all sort of excuse to siam sitting on the bike. so
usually i will park my bike at the carpark near her house and took
mrt when going out with her.
no need to force her to become the pillion.......
but in the end almost a year taking mrt to go out with her, she
finally agree to sit on my bike.
of course you must built her confident first, like kopiosatu said,
use defensive riding technique first. teach her what to do, how to
react in different situation.
in the end, she confident enough.......she can sleep from jb to
pagoh.....chehhhhhhhh;p