This is probably the most common mistake women make. Don't rely
on your partner to get things started every time. "When you
initiate sex, it shows him that sex with him is a priority in your
relationship," says Lou Paget, author of 365
Days of Sensational Sex. "It also shows him that you
relish sex for sex's sake." Men find this show of power sexy, and
they get totally turned on by the simple fact that you want them
sexually.
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