angel7030 SG Yes, in abuse, there are two types, one is external, the other is internal, what u are doing is an internal abuse of your own brother, he has his right to sex.
Fatum SG if it's your wifey doing that to you, you have my sympathies, if it's your gf using sex as a weapon ... then I have to say you're really "gong" ...
T E M P O SG is like your enemy infront of u..u want to fire @ him..then ur Sir give u orders, " DO NOT FIRE. " or " I DONT ALLOW U TO FIRE." Like this..
BadzMaro SG Hell yeah! Nobody withhold sex. i DEMAND to be have sex. And they have to give when i ask them to.
Great_One SG This problem does not only happen to men but also women as you can see from the link below. http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2007/07/11/withholding-sex-as-a-form-of-punishment.htm As I am sure a healthy relationship would mean a healthy sex life. But when one partner starts to use it as a form of punishment or barter than it is time to sit down and think. I would consider it as a form of mental and emotional abuse.
youyayu SG well.. for both female and male.. both have to keep fit and good looking to have a healthy sex life... even if both of them are old.. its important to keep good looking... if u are ask to f*ck ur wife when she is 40 years old and look like a nanny.. then u will not able to AHEM.. must keep good looking mah.. then confirm won't withhold mah.. then if the girl or guy is chio then i nothing say lah !
sgt lim SG You have to ask your didi for permission before you masterbate or have sex. If he says no and you force him to have sex, than you are abusing him and sgt lim will have you arrested and thrown into jail. If he say yes and you don't allow him to have sex, you are abusing him too and sgt lim will have you arrested and thrown into jail too