Tip #1
I can sit here all day long and explain to you
what it's like to drive a car. I can tell you how
it's different steering a car when you're driving
5 miles per hour than it is when you're driving 55
miles per hour... and how it's different to back
up because you have to think in reverse...
...and you could ask me questions like "Well,
how do you mean it's "backwards" when you back up?
Wouldn't it just feel the same?" and "Wouldn't it
be distracting to turn your windshield wipers on
while it's raining and you're trying to drive?"...
...and I could answer all of your questions...
...OR...
...you could just get in a damn car and go see
what it's like to drive!
If you want to "capture this concept" you need
to get out in the real world and DO IT.
In your example above, you asked if you're also
creating "some sort of negative body language" at
the same time by walking away from a woman.
What do you mean by "negative"?
And if it WORKS, WHO CARES?
Do you mean that if you walk away from a girl
that you're talking to, are you going to make her
think you don't like her?
GOOD, if she thinks that. Who cares?
If you walk away from a woman because you want
to go talk to your friends, it's HER DEAL if she
doesn't like it. Not yours.
If, on the other hand, you see your friends,
but DON'T go talk to them because you don't want
to offend the girl you're talking to, you're going
to probably also give her several clues that
you're a WUSSBAG, and that you don't have any
spine or life of your own... and that you like to
live in a way that pleases other people.
And guess what?
That is NOT an attractive quality.
Look...
Everything is a trade-off in one way or
another.
Everything involves risk.
Everything you do can backfire.
Most guys are painfully aware of these issues.
But, the problem is that most guys take this
knowledge and use it the WRONG WAY.
Instead of doing what WORKS, and not caring if
it "backfires" or "fails" in that particular
situation, they do the "safe" thing.
Of course, anytime you "play it safe" around an
attractive woman by being a "nice guy" and trying
to "follow her lead" you are almost ABSOLUTELY going to
do something that's going to backfire on you MOST
of the time.
In other words, by playing it safe and being a
"nice" guy, you won't get any "negative" responses
or "rejection" in the moment.
But, she's NEVER going to feel ATTRACTION for
you, either (unless you look like Brad Pitt, or
you're in Cold Play).
The answer?
Before I tell you, I want to suggest that you
don't understand one other KEY element of creating
ATTRACTION with a woman. And you can learn about
that key element by contacting me..
