ur gf/wife holds the key not u and she decides when to let u out
for sex or release 
btw chastity devices can be used for long term and u can pee with
it(some might required u to sit)
Your husband or boyfriend has just announced his chastity fetish to
you. What are you supposed to do?
Firstly let's consider the basic elements of his chastity desires.
Chastity today is primarily about denial and submission. Denial is
nothing new, its part of our every day lives, and something we all
experience in one way or another.
The concept of denial is with us in many forms. Many people go on
diets or limit the kinds of food they eat, such as chocolates,
cakes and biscuits. Others regularly join health clubs and work
through demanding routines in the gym. Still more people become
slaves to their jobs, working long hours when they could be
enjoying themselves.
All of the above are forms of denial, and there are many more for
that matter, and they all have one thing in common - there is
something in it for the person being denied. We engage in healthy
denials for either personal benefit or pleasure. So aspects of
denial are with us throughout our lives, denial in itself is
nothing new, we all deny our self certain pleasures to achieve a
greater goal, and this is one of the driving forces behind your
man's desire for chastity.
When we look at male chastity we see one of the most fundamental
denials possible, sexual gratification. Your man wants to deny
himself orgasm for the pleasure of experiencing that one special
orgasm, the one you have granted him. He wants to be denied his own
pleasures and will carry out tasks around the house, to receive the
greater pleasure of pleasing you, of being attentive to your daily
and sexual needs in order for him to receive your praise and
approval of his behaviour.
Your man's submissive need for denial linked with you granting his
orgasms can form part of a chastity lifestyle or be a wonderful
chastity playtime pleasure lasting from anything from one day to
many months, and there's a lot you can gain from this too. But only
if you want to.
If your emotional and sexual relationship with your man is strong
and healthy, introducing male chastity can bring something unique
and special into your lives. But you need to find your own way of
dominating him, find your own style, you don't have the be the
leather clad dominatrix he's probably fantasised about for years.
You need to be You.
http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/new.htm
other sites.
The male chastity belt has been the subject of much of my
fantasies. I've been intrigued with the sexual power implications
of having my genitals toyed with, yet out of reach, and under lock
and key. The thought of having my penis LOCKED up by a secure
device, and my not being able to touch myself or masturbate is
highly erotic.
Chastity Belts are more commonly thought of in literature as a
method of locking up females (supposedly to protect them from
attack by thoughtless males). A properly designed and fitted male
chastity device will prevent manipulation of the penis, and
definitely prevent sex.
http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/male.htm
http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2007/03/02/my-own-chastity-story/
http://www.lady-jester.com/index.html
