just wana share my personal sorrows.
my work require me to do regional to support customers and looking
for business opportunity.
everytime i received requirement to do overseas, i felt worried and
scare that i had to broke the news to her and get nags, complain
from her. imagine i had to do it 2-3times mth.
i had good relationship with my daughter. somehow i feel she is not
doing enough as a mother. my daughter enjoy my companion more than
with her. it is not that she is a disciplianiam but she simply
bochap and chap the wrong things. whenever i am in singapore i will
play with my daughter and bring her to outing, watch elmo show,
barnie show, cartoons and chat with her about anything.
i handle all bills at home. i need to remember when to pay
utilities bills, conservation charges, pay her credit card bills (
she pay me when she received her pay which is normally after due
date). but most of myfriends is handle by their wife.
she doesnt save, spent every cents of her pay. i try to save around
20-30k a year for my old age and also plan for my children
education fees.
my mom bought breakfast every weekend for her. she never bother to
wake up to buy any breakfast for me or my mom.
she brought her dog but seldom walk it. now the dog become another
of my good pals, which is the only one that bother to wait for me
to come home after late work in office.
she only cook less than 10 times for the family in 5 yrs. And
seldom offer to pay for dinning out although her pay is quite
OK.
that is my version of the story i try to ask myself think on her
side.
i told myself, no matter what for the sake of children i will hold
this family together.
do any bros have any similar less than happy marriage.
please share if you can.
