if your ex broke up..so be it..
at least breaking up doesn't mean no-longer frens or
something..
i have had frens who broke up, than didn't speak about each other
nor keep in contact already..
in your case, you both at least handle the relationship like what
adults should and still remain as frens..
as for you meeting her in h81, it's up to you and her decision at
the end of the day ya..
as for the R21 part..
if she wants it, i would say, just give it; would you rather her
finding other guys who treat her like toy or rather she comes back
to you (at least you' still have her interest at heart) but don't
treat her like a FB, but rather a soul-mate, one who she feels
comfortable with and telling all the secrets to..
you get what i mean?
in some cases, even divorced couples are still meeting up etc, but
in status, they don't want the title to be married due to the
limited freedom and the stigma that comes in a package..
if you still love her..just treat her well..but Not as a FB..
since it's a mutual agreement on both sides, thus there's no need
to feel guilty at all.. come on man, you gotta handle it like an
adult since you're already working right.
but for the monthly allowance of $250, I would say perhaps you
might want to re-consider it..
Real frens don't ask for money, but rather understanding and
accompany..
although i don't meet up with my secondary sch frens often; in fact
just once a yr, but the bonding is still there you see..
so it depends on how you actually handle the relationship well
enough or not..
i hope my comments help you in some way..
