Thank you tut4nkh4m3n, but actually, to a small extent, I signed
up to help this guy, but I've been looking at this forums for a
couple of days now and I thought this would be a good oppotunity to
join this community.
As for your post, I agree that erections are always a problem
especially when there is a wound on your penis. But according to
some websites, the pain of having your stitches torn is enough to
turn you off and make your erection go down, unless of course,
you're someone who advocates S&M.
Also, there are methods to combat erections. For example, I'm sure
you're familar with the term, morning glory and night erections.
This can be avoided through practises such as urinating before
going to bed and sleeping in a fetal position. I've tried this
advice while not circumcised yet and I agree that it works for me.
Also, another piece of advice is that you do the method in which
you pull back the foreskin and use surgical tape to tape it down so
that your glans is constantly exposed.
This website tells you how to do it, http://www.circlist.com/preferences/feelcut.html
This method works exceptionally well for me in reducing erections
and getting comfortable with having a circumcised penis. Basically,
the retracting of the foreskin forces your glans to rub constandly
against my underwear, hence it was uncomfortable for the first day
(I had lots of erections), and I was walking bull legged as though
my penis hurt (which did, a little)
However, on the second day onwards, I gradually became more used to
the feeling of my glans rubbing against my underwear. And after a
while, my erections became lesser and lesser. Combined with the
sleeping position and the urinating advice, I found out that my
sleeping erections were almost gone.
actually, i was looking at porn and recently started to discover
that those circumsized penises look a lot better, because the gleam
of the head's flesh is like more water and rubbery,
juicy.......girls see already also lao-nua, compared to a penis
whereby the skin covers the head (like non-naked like that).
then, i also realized that lots of un-circumsized guys, their
penises' foreskin can stretch back all the way to reveal the head,
so it's like they have the best of both worlds : ability to reveal
the head and also cover it when needed without going for
operation!
actually i got think of going circumcision, but i'm very very
scared loh.....sigh.
As for you, I found out about circumcision through a friend who
is chinese. When we were in Secondary One, we attended a camp
together and when we showered as a group, I noticed that every
other guy's penis has a little fold of skin while his was a pinkish
rounded tip (He was circumcised at birth). After asking him, he
gave me more information on circumcision. That was how I got
interested in circumcision.
Also, I decided to pursue being circumcised because I agree with
you. A circumcised penis looks way better than a intact (non
circumcised) one. There is one point I totally disagree. If you can
pull back your foreskin and left out your glans for a few hours,
you would notice why. Firstly, a circumcised penis will not have a
rubbery and watery glan. This is because the constant exposure to
the open air and rubbing against your underwear results in a dry
glans which is smooth and powdery to the touch. The rubbery and
watery look is probably achieved through lubrication.
My foreskin can be retracted fully, but I still want to and I am
going for circumcision because even though my foreskin can be
pulled back, it will not stay back! hence, I do not really feel
that it's the best of both worlds cause I'd rather my foreskin
being retracted all the time.
Since you're intact, I think you'd agree on this, there tends to be
a buildup of secretions and other fluids under the foreskin,
resulting in a sometimes embarrassing and smelly mess no matter how
many times you clean under it. Circumcision gets rid of this
problem.
If you're still considering circumcision, don't just refer to
www.circlist.com because I dare say that it leans
slightly to advocating circumcision. Otherwise, it is pretty
balanced. However, there are also a lot of websites out there that
are AGAINST circumcision. It's be best if you had a close friend
who has been circumcised to talk to about it cause like my friend,
a personal experience is always better compared to websites who are
biased.
Sorry for the long post, the site doesn't allow me to post so
often, yet.
If you've any more questions and problems, I do not mind looking
them up for you and answering them. And you're welcome.
