Originally posted by CrabbyShaSha:
I'd opt to give an essay ans instead of MCQ.
I'd once talked to a guy. He'd chosen 6) I'm a guy. I'm NOT a
virgin.I CANNOT accept my SO if she has sex before. This was his
view just before he married. So he eventually married a
virgin.
But fr wat I'd heard fr him, it begin to dawn on him that virgin or
not doesnt matter anymore cos his wife was really frigid in bed.
More issues arises in a marriage but that's quite another story.
But soon he begin to realize the term "virgin" is just a title, a
name to boost some male ego.
I do agree that it wld be nice when you're serious abt someone and
that both of u hold on to your chastity till the day you tie the
knot. This requires [b]SERIOUS discipline and really shows
your total commitment.
But that is only in an ideal world. You'd to get an ideal partner
to start with. But in a real world, you get bruised by
relationships and keep on looking for new ones. And its the 21st
century now in Modern Singapore. Either you get a virgin 16 &
below, else chances of finding a virgin are not that great when ppl
are constantly on the net prowling for flings & "fun" or when
you'd to "prove" your love to ur current r/s.
So to me, my concern would be on the r/s, not a piece of membrane
or the status.
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Hey crabbyshasha, i agree with your view 