Would you girls ever marry a cleft-lipped guy?

Vince Disel SG

One who is kind-hearted and sucessful?

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bigmouthjoe SG

Why cannot? My friend is happy married with 2 kids leow... love is blind lah haha.

Vince Disel SG

I'm still unconvinced... I have many cases of girls discriminating against such guys. Crying or Very sad Confused

bigmouthjoe SG

Depends on the girl.. but now can have surgery to make it less obvious. I know bad to depend on looks but guys also complain if girls not perfect.

Addiction SG

those who talk with a strange accent?

Vince Disel SG

Its really sad to see many girls are judging a person by his looks first. Theres no such thing as inner beauty anymore.... Confused

Diehard_89 SG

that's sad but a cold hard fact

we got to keep on moving until we find the one who truely understands

bigmouthjoe SG

We also judge girl based on chio or not first mah… but takes time to know a person lah.

Vince Disel SG

I would say even most guys judge another guy by his looks too . If he sees someone hadicapped or ugly, they wouldn’t want to be his friend.

JerzZzzZ SG

If the handicapped / ugly guy thinks this way, he's likely a person with little to no self-esteem.

Most people I know dislike people with no self-esteem, and not because of their outward appearances. Of course, there are many types of people in the world.

bigmouthjoe SG

It’s a cruel world brother.

Cool-gal SG

y not, ever heard of love is blind??

siaokau SG

Joaquin Phoenix got cleft lip but still quite handsome what.

Patrik SG

When we see pretty girls,we would tend to see all her good points before discovering her bad points.
Whereas for a fat and ugly girl,we wld associate all bad things with her,ignoring any good points that she has.
Rolling Eyes

Urroh SG

my friend cleft lipped have a pretty gf .. who say they cant have love?

Love doesnt base on looks alone.. Mad

Hello Kitty SG

acherly, me wudnt mind.

january SG

there are of course discrete examples of people with cleft lipped but still happily married.

but the truth is ... if u have cleft lip, you will be disadvantaged and discrminated naturally by a certain degree.

discrimination is hardwire in us. we just avoid things that looks different. we can of course learn to reduce our natural inclination to discriminate but it takes time and there is so many things we have to learn not to discriminate.