Rules are made by humans, we guys are trained in a stereotypical
way dat if we cry, we are sissy. If we not strong, we are weak and
not man enough. If we play with dolls, we are girly guys. If we do
sewing, we effeminate. You get what I trying to say...
Its more of how others see and judge us by our actions dat make us
concerned. In other words, we are more concerned with wat others
tink of us den we tink of ourselves. Hence in dis case, our choices
in dressing attire are more limited as "sexually attractive" attire
will make others give us da "look".