Due to the influence of the american pop culture. Sex is deem to
be a pleasurable form of exercise to many young brats. Love is no
longer something that truly can last forever but girls are always
so gullible to believe that their first true love will always be
their one and only. When the tast the scare fruit they might be
addicted to it. Western influence help to convince the girl that
sex is nothing just pleasurable, this give them an excuse to caryy
out their activities.
Truly the boys are to be blame too. The concept of love and BGR
have chged so much from the believe that if u love someone u are
deem to shield the person frm harm and misery ,just like how a
mother protect her child, always and forever to something in which
they let their homones control and guide them on their way of
showing love. Worst some are into the relationship simply the get a
tast of the first fruit.
Why have the thinking of both sexes change? The way in which the
child is brought up plays an important role. In ancient china moral
education come first compare to the learning of practical
subjects(science). The first book they are taught are things like
Dao de jin (a book of moral codes and condect). The society
emphasis the difference between men and women. Most importantly
there are harsh law that punishes ppl who are not married and have
sex. The people do not just frown upon such actions, some even took
matters into their own hands. But now, after modernisation
thinkings change, perspective change, education chage, surely
sexual patterns are expected to change too.
Inculcating strong morals value is the way to go to prevent the
outspread of STD. The mindset of saving the first shld be welcome
back if STD is to stop its spread. But i will be practical such a
scenario is hard to come by again. I propose the teaching of Dao De
Jin at a young age. Dao De Jin will surely complement the sex
education in later years.