In terms of styling, Rav4 if the plastic pimple on its exterior
is your thing. The new honda CRV if it isn't.
Getting used to the dimensions of your vehicle is only a matter
of time 
I'll choose Rav4 for decent interior, smooth handling, power and
styling. CRV for price because it is the only one of the lot
available in 2.0 now.
Rav4 and Captiva both 2.4 if i'm not wrong.
In terms of styling, CRV wins but the car looks a bit oversized.
Small chassis with rather big wheels.. if u get what I
mean. Rav4 looks "square-square-boxxy-boxxy". Lauching Captiva
is a great attempt to show that SUV can have stg out of the
ordinary. I just luv the curved styling at the right
spots. But I'm not into SUV generally as they're not
that economical to drive in urban Singapore.