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Every woman on earth has fantasized about some explicit sexual
fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to talk
about. Whether it's your girlfriend or your wife, today's top ten
list is sure to touch on a forbidden fantasy of her own.
Although most women prefer to leave their fantasies at that, others
have a list that they are slowly but surely accomplishing. So the
next time your woman seems to be wandering off in thought, who
knows, she may be cruising around in the mystical world of sexual
fantasy.
So do you think you can guess what some of them are? This list took
a lot of time to comprise (and a few bottles of red wine as well),
and the women's names have been changed to protect their
privacy.
So the next time you're engaging in pillow talk with your lady of
the night, her fantasy may be more common than you might
think.
drum roll please...
Keep in mind that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our
sexuality. They are either taken from past experiences or may even
be entirely imaginary. Sometimes these fantasies are taboo, or
socially unacceptable, therefore they are only available through
fantasy. But as you'll figure out today, the modern woman marvels
at sex and sexuality.
10. Strangers in the night
Many women relish the idea of meeting up with a mystery man and
going to some no-name motel with him for a wild night of
uninhibited sex. Sometimes women feel like the only people they can
truly let loose with are strangers simply because they won't be
judged. And who cares anyway? They'll probably never see the
beautiful stranger again.
Francine divulged her perspective, "The idea of sharing a
passionate night with a stranger and behaving like a sexual
predator doesn't just sound inviting; it sounds delicious. And
leaving after we're done without even knowing each other's names is
the best part."
9. The more the merrier
Group sex was a popular one among the ladies. "The freedom of being
nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed,
allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body
simultaneously is incredibly erotic."
Now don't mistakenly assume that all women want to engage in group
intercourse, and gather up all your buddies for your next date
(unless, of course, she asks you to).
8. Who's your daddy?
If there's one thing that women are dying to do, it's dominate a
man like never before. The creative ideas that flowed from this
topic were quite interesting, to say the least. They
included:
spanking him
ordering him to perform certain sexual acts
making him beg for what he wants
having him suck on their stiletto heels or some other phallic
object
7. Lay me out on display
In today's world of confident women, I was not surprised to learn
that many of them fantasize about having an audience whilst
engaging in sexual acts with a partner. I guess the idea of knowing
that others are getting excited by their "performance" provides
them with a feeling of empowerment.
"Imagining that people are watching me while I'm taking my
partner's manhood into my mouth gives me a feeling of satisfaction
because it makes me feel sexier." Perhaps these women feel as
though they're participating in an erotic movie... speaking
abstractly, of course.
6. Sexually ravaged
Although most women agreed that they fantasize about having a
master, their role in the scenario differed. Whereas some women
said that they would surrender to their master's demands, others
opposed the idea and said that they would resist and disobey his
commands.
Vicky said, "Having him instruct me on how to lick and suck his
member or at what pace to ride him will make me orgasm faster than
I can say Yes, Master ." On the other hand, Denise interrupted
saying, "It depends. In some fantasies I obey, yet in others I
fight him and refuse to do anything he says until he finally ties
me to the bed and calms me with his rhythmic penetration."
Whew, is it hot in here, or is it just me???
5. I taw, I taw a putty tat
Come on, guys, I'm sure you smelled this one coming from miles away
(no pun intended... seriously). Yes, virtually every woman wants or
will share her body with another woman. Are you jealous because you
get left out? Don't be, most of these women want their man to watch
them while they work... or play, as the case may be.
"The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly
sucking her tongue, amongst other things, seems very erotic," said
Sara. Actually that does sound pretty inviting, but won't it be
difficult for you guys to sit in the corner and just watch? After
all, these women don't want you to participate -- okay, one of them
did.
4. Leave a good tip
Keeping in mind that the women interviewed are professionals with
commendable careers, some of them fantasized about being strippers,
while others took things a step further and imagined being
prostitutes. Obviously, the fantasy is romanticized beyond belief
because the life of either is not so glamorous that women would opt
to have it as a career choice.
"While I'm performing a lap dance for my customer, he hands me a
$100 bill and requests that I perform the lap dance... minus his
pants," Tina boldly stated. When I asked Amber about her
prostitution fantasy, she said, "The gentleman would pick me up in
his expensive car and I would ride him in the driver's seat in some
dingy back alley. He would pay me my fee and I'd be on my
way."
What's the number 1 fantasy? Read on
