1) if people honest to you, you have to forgive her or
appreciate her???
comment: what a BS!
For example: someone cheated your car, your house, and your money,
After that, she started to be honest to you... you have to
appreciate / forgive her what she did?
could it be that she was drunk and told you accidentally?
If i were u, i will take a vacantion alone. And think about whether
I can accept her as a new "herself" now and reconsider our
marriage.
Once decision is made, that's it and will not regret on the
decision.