there is a very thick line between fantasies and reality
however, when the line is crossed... then its not long just a
fantasy,
hence, the your request and act itself can be considered
sick.
Your behaviour can be considered sick, hence you can defend all you
want, but others are free to have their ideas.
Some women after performing such an act upon pressure from their
husband, the whole context of the r/s changes. Hence most men, just
keep these things as fantasies. In addition, soliciting for a
person in forum suggests very bad taste. Shop elsewhere if you
must. In a sense, you're pimping yourself, your wife and your r/s,
it would do a lot more courtesy to observe forum activities and
note that solicitation is not encouraged.
And yes, I consider you sick.
