What should u do,now that i know that he has this type of
intentions should i break up my friendship with him or was it just
a joke or was it just out of stupidity.
Actually.. what do u mean by he touch u.. theres different types of
touching.. eg. touch shoulder.. hold hand to hand...sayang on the
head.. all these is considered normal. But let say he touch your
butt or boobs or try to get his hand inside of your clothings. That
is call molest. U r in his room, if he does any of the above which
is considered molest, Most probably is he got intentions. That is
very dangerous.
a) He has the intention of getting u and wans to force it
down
b) He has the intention but wans to relay the msg to u to see if u
will accept it or not.
c) He may be doing it out of curiosity or boredom or juzz wanna
play around.
What you should do is,
1) when he does those action which is considered molestation and
you do not like the feeling, u should tell him straight that u dun
like what he is doing and be firm about it and ask him to
stop.
2) If you feel like it and wans to go further.. (carry on
lor...)
3) If you dun wanna make him feel paisei or awkard, try to relay
the msg to him in a frenly tone that u dun like the way he is
behaviour
Quite a number of guys when they invite gers to their room and
especially if they r alone.. they may become quite playfull and
wanna try things out. So, next time make sure there is at least a
3rd person with u.(a ger would be better)
