haha ... i know there will bound to be someone to say not to get
marry, can save more $$. ...
but natural course ler, want to get marry ler .....
recently brother got married, spend like 40K on the wedding and
then some more on tour, and then housing and then just recently ,
the wife bought herself a diamond ring which cost $13K ..... now
she wanted my brother to foot the bill .... well my brother is not
earning as much as his wife ....which is somewhere around 2K plus.
she's a primary school teacher .
Recently I have also encounter a couple of friends who are involved
in divorce cases ... so I was thinking what the heck spend some
much ? ... If the marriage is meant to be, the $$ spend on wedding
can be better use to improve the standard of living ...
I know some will say that the $$ spent on wedding can be recoupe
back, but trust me, it never does. A wedding encompass alot many
thing than just the dinner alone....
and yes, I was thinking about gathering just the few close family
and friends....
in this way, if the other party has got a hugh family like 80
relatives ... then the initial $$ to fork out is tremendous ....
come to think about, actually it's finding the $$ to fund the
wedding in the 1st place .... which I know most will borrow from
parents first, isn't it?