Brides from Vietnam,Thailand or PRC

last SG · 2005-06-14T17:36:47+00:00

actually it is not fair to put the blame solely on sg gals. are there only poor guys in singapore? where are all the poor gals? where are all the gals that a...

Riki SG

80% or more of them marry without love,just for the sake of getting to a better envoirment.They're just attracted by the power of $$$.

What is the successfull rate you will give to this kind of marriage?

Saw too many are here just for PR status,after getting it,the game will be over!

$$$ again play the major role,those with the extra will have higher chances to survive from these marriages.

If not the wives will start to look out for another carrot head Sad

But how come guys still rush for such blind marriage?

My personal views :

(1) our local babes are all too materialistic & you can always hear this line,even for a small thing( you can wait for my laywer letter) do this sound familer?Their endurance are fully strecth by their earning power & divorce is now no more a big issue!

(2) we guys hope to get submissive wive,that's why taking the gamble on blind marriage is now increasing in our society.

(3) lastly but no least,I would love to see your point of view how you rate local babes against those aliens as wives?

borgkilla SG

generally speaking the men who are looking for overseas brides are men that our local gals would reject in a heart beat
poor guys who are in their mid 30s to 40s low pay jobs, no prospects of getting better jobs.
I place the blame on our local gals, common we know its true .. if you dont have X number of $$$$$.. you arent gonna get a SG gal.
So they have to do the next best thing, go for gals who arent asking for so much $$$$$ but perhaps $$$ Mr. Green

MRMUSICPRODUCER SG

SG GALS 1 $$$ & they give bad attitude. so why not get a syt 4 a wife 2 do your bidding? also $$$ wat!!!

MRMUSICPRODUCER SG

SG GALS 1 $$$ & they give bad attitude. so why not get a syt 4 a wife 2 do your bidding? also $$$ wat!!! but $$$ well spent

MRMUSICPRODUCER SG

SG GALS 1 $$$ & they give bad attitude. so why not get a syt 4 a wife 2 do your bidding? also $$$ wat!!! but $$$ well spent

Ito_^ SG

many people do place more priority on things like commitment, stability, companionship etc, for either themselves or their offsprings, over love, romance and the fairy tale passion.

and they ain't sluts or prostitutes either.

i respect that.

BonJovi SG

cute reply Razz And ya...i agree totally

digicharat SG

because singaporean guys simply just cannot make it.
they are not capable enough to provide for singporean gals. so they go for cheaper alternative loh...

CX SG

kana sai... if all an SG girl wants is a meal ticket, then she can kiss my @ss...

not all "cheaper alternatives" are money grabbing heart-breakers... in fact, even if they were, then they will be just as bad as SG girls... so lan lan lor Mr. Green

moral of the story? stay single... men can wait...

AngelMissy SG

i think it’s not entirely fair to push all the blame on the girls. girls these days also hv to work and feed herself. reality has it that no work no food.. they may hv to provide for the family…. so in that sense, she would in reality, wouldn’t want to hv a boyfriend or husband who becomes her”burden”. building a relationship takes 2. Balance the relationship is importman. Even if the lady is earning more than the men, but the men balance the relationship in other ways that reduces the stress of the earning lady like helping out in caring for the aged parents, n small contributions like looking into the bills, doing the groceries, i think things would work out.. but very often, SG guys hv the EGO mentality and that also makes things worse… so it’s not only a reflection for the girls in respect to the expectations.. hv u ever thought(guys) ur own expectations… u wan girls who r sexy pretty and dun like $$? So it’s a reflection for us all…. if guys r not choosey… girls r not choosey.. how nice this place would be right?

valcrist SG

well said. women in today's society are mostly ''nu qiang rens''. they want to support themselves with their own money and gain independence. being married and leading a housewife's life is no longer their dream now. top exec jobs, high-rising pays, unlimited freedom, and no restrictions from men. times certainly have changed!

CPTMiller SG

Starting or going for a relationship using $$$ as a measurement tool for each other suitability is already a weak link.
Ask around would a girl mind if the guy is earning less or lower educated.
How many answer is "NO" ??
This is the society we are in now.

ha8n SG

Laughing

Gackt247 SG

There r sg men who wish to settle down but r unable to compete in the high-stakes game of love in sg.. so they have no choice but to look for alternatives..

seow SG

Good la, no baby produced, no more singapore in a couple of decades, then new singapore come.... " the vicious cycle goes on...."

(pardon me for my BS)

valcrist SG

of course i dont mean all women la. haha. its just an increasing trend, and birth rates have fallen drastically. the government is encouraging ''baby production'' by giving longer maternal leave and ''baby bonuses''. im sure everyone knows this Mr. Green

singapore won't disappear because of lack of babies. but our economy will suffer because of a smaller pool of workers. Crying or Very sad

Riki SG

tis is wat i consider as mature sharing her view,tks for ur truefull words.

really hope tis cross-fire debate knock some sense into our mind frame.

balancing is the word,simple is precious.

shandower SG

Be glad for alternatives! Mr. Green

seancannot SG

Not all foreign gals are monies grabber ... happen that 2 of ex col wives are from china ..who are quite devoted.... and guess what happened to them... the guys cheated on their wives went to Batam for cheap sex, and heaven is blind even blessed them with 2 young sweet SG gf... they ended in divorce and their sg husband sent them packing back to china..and married their new sg gals.... True Story!!

quite true a lot of sg gals are materialistic ... cant blame them ... this is the society we live in... that make them up to be so

I also happen to have a gal fren who dump her rich bf which she find boring for a poor handsome guy .

Moral of story no $$ must have look

me no $ no look ... end up no gf no wife

jOhO SG

I don't have experiences with PRC or vietnamese brides or friends who have married them, but i share something that is relevant.

I shoot weddings regularly, and last month, had the pleasure of going to KL to cover a wedding there. quite an elaborate affiar, the couple was affluent, and i suspect so were their friends.

The moment i started in the morning, i was greeted by a cheerful "jie mei" who was preparing the tekan stuff for the groom. soon, a few more joined in and started chatting with me asking me for suggestions and what i thought of their evil plans. spoke perfect english, confident, looks wise ok, nothing to complain about, fun-loving, uninhibited and DEFINITELY NOT dao. can u imagine the same of a singaporean girl, educated overseas, affluent, good-looking? wat's the chances they will come up and initiate friendly banter with you, esp if you're an ugly wedding photographer "intruding" into their fun? Twisted Evil

I contrast that to singaporean weddings i shoot. sure singaporeans girls are not total OPPOSITE, but it does take them a while to warm up. some never do, mind you, and snuff you all the way. there's something about singaporean girls being dressed up and looking pretty (in their opinions entirely) that they have the right to snuff any stranger.

i'm sure i have treaded on many (female) toes here. just sharing an experience, and generalising. don't come and reply me saying, eh not all sg girls are like that, i know alot of malaysian girls so this that and the other. Rolling Eyes

maybe that KL wedding i shot was a very RARE case. let's see if i get the chance to shoot in KL more often. Laughing