Allow me to share my views.
1st and foremost i must say i do have my fair share of singapore
girlfriends. I have a good job, stable income and pleasant looking.
My experience with singapore girls are they are materialistic,
treat you like a driver. It does not help by the fact the car i
drove is not a japanese car.
Even till today, i have an ex-colleague (quite pretty) whom i have
not met for 3 year plus still sms me once in a while and ask me
what im doing and then move on to say shes outside at this so and
so place and tries and filt with me and get me to pick her up and
send her home. I always decline as im already attached. Such is the
attitude of singapore girls and this is not an isolated incident.
Many a times when im younger, many girls will want me to send them
back after a night of clubbing etc etc.
Currently my GF is from Vietnam. Comparision between sg and foreign
girls? Viet girls are MUCH more caring, most of them knows how to
cook since young even when she is from a rich family, knows how to
take care of the family. Sometimes when i wanted to buy her
something, she will say oh no so expensive and ask me not to buy
it. Singapore girls? Its almost the opposite.
What about those foreign girls that are flooding singapore? In my
job i meet foreign girls everyday. I must clarify they are not what
you read in the papers regarding PRC girls soliciting for sex in
geylang and the likes. Majority of them are down to earth,
pleasant, caring.
And the hooha few months back on vietnamese brides parading
themselves in the computer fair. If you would try and understand
their background your views might change. Girls from the
countryside in vietnam earn less than $100 or $150 per month. They
live in poverty. To many of them marrying foreigners is the only
way out of their misery and it does not help that they have to
support many siblings. Singaporean will not understand as they have
NEVER been put in the same situation. Many of them are born living
in a comfortable environment since young where we do not need to
worry about education and 3 meals a day. Such is the opposite for
those rural girls from vietnam. Why wouldn't they marry viet guys u
may sak? Viet guys are well known as wife beaters, lazy, drunkards
and not doing anything while the wife works. Would you wanna marry
them?
So in a way, i do respect those girls that is trying to fight for
their own lives and freedom by marrying overseas and taking the 1st
step out of their hometown and seeking work in factories so that
foreigners can come and choose them. They are just fighting for
their survival. And remember, their family do not get much money
even if they are married overseas from those agencies. Out of $15k
clients pay in singapore to the agent, majority goes into the
pocket of the agents, they family stand to gain only $800 or
LESS.
Sorry for my lengthy post, given my personal experience, i still
stick to my stand, foreign girls over sg girls anytime. Thanks for
reading, no offence meant
