Have difficulty in inserting your penis into the girl?

wendy81 SG

Recently I had made many friends who club and seems like many of them do not go for ONS as they have a contraction problem with the vaginal. They get pains when the guys wanna try enter the small little entrance. Heard that about 2yrs ago there was such a problem and the couple was sent to the hospital in an ambulance in the sex position [the kinda position is not an issue here]. Anyone had encountered such a problem before?

I really feel so sad for those girl friends of mine. I do wish they have a proper sex life like anyone of us here do have. Sad

Gackt247 SG

It doesnt juz concern the ladies. Guys do wonder how to make entry easier coz we do worry of causing too much pain on our partners. Past posts in past threads include lubrication, extended foreplay etc. The notion tt the entry is too small is often rebuffed by the arguement tt if a baby can exit from the same orifice, wat’s a penis. But the thing is, it takes a considerable amt of time n of course pain before a baby can come out. So now.. how to deal with the problem?

BrUtUs SG

its been a long time since saw your post...
as for the topic, tink defninitely need alot of lub and patience... ask them go see doc lo...

wendy81 SG

Its been a long long while I supposed Wink how's everything going with ya? Hope all things fine and sailing smoothly for ya. Wink

wendy81 SG

But there was really a case when the the penis was stuck in the vaginal as the contraction was too huge. They needed help from the doctors. Confused

BrUtUs SG

life is ok, still surviving... Cool

wendy81 SG

Everyday is like having warfare.. nutting new about the hectic lifestyle in SG. I've been so bz working too that I had almost forgotten about this forum till someone went to IRC and found me. Wink AiTeZ! its time to hit the sack soon... Its my holidays now and I have to grab the chance to sleep more! hehe! nite nite dude!

kentheman SG

well, like u say, ONS...really depends la...sometimes those involved juz wanna gian song but not trust..therefore, the Pussy wun get wet as easy as those who have sex in a relationship...

wat i can suggest is prolonged foreplay to make the lady wetter..or if the guy wanna save the trouble, invest in a tube of KY...

wendy81 SG

Hmmm.... Ive got a particular case whereby my frens who are a couple did not have sex before at all due to the contraction problem. She would bleed and have severe pain even they have foreplay or lubricant. its not about the abrasion pain but its a feeling like the vaginal just do not want to open up at all... the maximum size is so small that it does not fit a penis. Guess there really women who have such problems and they can only climax with the massage of clitoris without the actual penetration.

spencer99 SG

heard that most cases is mental... but if really suspect got physical problem go and see a doc or the gyne.

Devil1976 SG

In severe cases, maybe can see a professional about it?

Else, it's often foreplay / lubrication thing with regard to both parties AND mainly a woman's control over her pelvic and vaginal muscle contractions.

the.raven SG

huh, ya rightm the guy's penis shrink then can take out already what, still need to go hospital in the sex position?

wendy81 SG

They have gone to see the gynae already and the doc did mention she's one of the rare cases with problems controlling the pelvic and vaginal muscle. I was just pondering over the question if this will affect their relationship. Sex somehow plays a part in maintaining a relationship. Confused

MRMUSICPRODUCER SG

sex definately is 1 of the key role in a relationship. but since your frd has seen the doc, her bf or bfs or ons or upcoming bf shd appreciate tat. happy bonking Twisted Evil

waliao SG

Hello n welcome back Wendy Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink

I_am_PeTe_Parker SG

The embarrassment would not have been avoided if the gal had kept a tube of vaselin gel. Never leave home without one. I bring the condom, you bring the gel Mr. Green .

shandower SG

Lubrication is very important. Mr. Green

wendy81 SG

Mr. Green thanks! Wink

laosu SG

There's cases whereby some have the tendency of being tensed when having sex whether it's ONS or with bf or even husband. In such cases, the entry will be hard for the male. And sometimes the position does play a part too.

Ok. When I say tensed, I don't mean excitment. I really do mean tensed. Could be a lot of reason and I guess if the couple are very close, the girl should tell the partner what are the ways to make her less tensed or simply just discover it.

Devil1976 SG

Yeah... Can be quite a 'test' for them...?