Originally posted by czechmate:
Oi Ding! I really have to say this again. Think through
this carefully bec you have a daughter to consider. Mona's just out
of a 7 year relationship and you've been friends all this while.
Some women really need attention at this time to give their egos a
boost. I'm not saying she's a bad woman or a selfish one but more
often than not, you'll be what they call the rebound lover. No
woman who's as upset as you say Mona was is going to hop into the
next relationship so quickly and consider it a serious one. She
probably just needs someone to spend time with her so her mind
doesn't wander in the direction of the guy who's just dumped her.
Many women do this. It's the fastest way to get over pain.
Since you've come up with that little list, talk to your wife. I
agree the sms thing can sound like quite a turn off but discuss
things with her. If there's no communication, frustration with each
other festers and becomes anger. But you might still be able to
salvage the relationship. 18 years is not something to throw away
on what [b]might
well be a fling on Mona's part, and it is possible
that bec of her current state of mind, Mona's unintentionally using
you.
Give this some time. It's going to be a major mistake if you dump
your family now over something you have no idea is even going to
last 3 months. Everything new is good, romantic, exciting and
perfect. That's why judgments are clouded. [/b]
Wa your advise beri good leh are you a professional counsellor ?
Hope you can knock some sense outta this guy who is blinded by lust
and romance at the moment . His MO MO beri good meh ? Can put mona
at marketplace and sell anot because I intend to earn more money
then install nitrous express gas tanks on my wife's wheelchair to
give a boost of speed so she can race in India and can outrun a
Nissan Skyline 
czechmate you work for MCDS or wat ?
