Hey Mr Ding, Let me tell you a true story from a point of a
Daugher view...
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it happen six years ago, my dad has a best friend and good helper
who formerly teaching in the primary school around the west area.
Didn't realise he having an affair with her for quite a while and
my mum knows... so do I, tot you are smart to cover all your
acts... you are wrong, we seem it in our eyes, it just a matter
whether we wan to keep the perfect mood in our family therefore we
are slience to what my dad's action... late coming home, hardly
talk and alway lock himself in the room. Finally, paper can't wrap
the fire, it was the chinese new year... suppose to be "yi jia tuan
yuan", but my dad give a lame excuses... "sorry... My boss giving
me tons of work" My mum, a kind hearted huang lian bo, spending her
whole live being housewife educate me well... my mum bring me to
"chun dao he pan" to walk around and feel the mood of new year...
shit thing happens, saw my dad with this great figure gentle
lady... with spec hug together standing in front of the "cai shen
ye" Kaoz... my nightmare begins... my dad wanna divorce with my
mum... my mum thinking of the family and refuse to do so... and
what happen.. he bring the woman home... Yes tat woman is a nice
lady, gentle... sweet but everything is useless she's an angel with
a knife tearing apart my family... my mum's faith for my dad....
GOSH, tats not the worst thing... my dad wants me to follow him, as
in he want my custody... wah lau, you think i can tolerate that let
my mum suffered... I can't lor... besides my dad image totally
trashed, he makes me hate men and a conclusion men are just an
animal who hunger for sex.
WORST THING HAPPEN, my dad diagnosis of AIDS, he become weaker and
weaker as times goes by... At first I was scared.. first time i
truly understand what's aids is and it can suffered my family... My
dad stop contacting tat woman (worry he might transmitt the disease
to her... wat abt my family?!) My mum like an angel treated him
well without any complaint without any gruges... visited him
everyday at SG CDCS, can you imagine a young girl like me visiting
tat holy place every week and that woman where is she.... none of
existence.. worst my dad pass away... what more worse, my mum is a
victim... my dad pass AIDS to her, she's totally a victim truly
worse victim ever... my family almost broken in term of emotion...
financially and my upbringing (i was only 15 at that time)... a
year later of my dad's death... my mum gone... (you know why my mum
gone?? she can be alive with medical support but she choose not to
be cos we are totally broke... can't even afford to eat $2 laksa at
tat time.... and the cool part i heard from my aunt... tat woman
also contact AIDS... she's gone after my mum's death... what happen
to me?! been moving house... no relative want me.. my cousin wanna
cheat my mum's CPF, dude pls dun make your daughter follow my
footpath... I have seen a broken family and trust me your
daughter's heart will harden as times goes if you do this to her...
harden no feeling to men no feeling to thing around her...
sibeh song right tot having new affair bring excitment to your
life... comparing your love one and thinking this is your "yan fu"
Mister... as a daughter point of view.. try being an adult and
responsible to your act.. .I can't believe you been thinking you
are the victim... the worst is not yet come and it comes... it
totally trash your family... I would like suggest you give up on
your daughter, let her follow her mother... dun make her think you
are the worst kind in her life and dun let her follow your
footstep...
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conclusion from my personal view of you: you are an hopeless human
and it's an insulting to call yourself human.