Originally posted by 15963:
Okay, I'm back. So the majority here says that I should not
let him do whatever he want, right? Okay.. Yes and one of you
mentioned that I'll feel 'dirty', why, yes it's quite true. I'm a
person who tends to think alot and after everything I did, I'll
keep thinking about it.
By the way, [b]IF (not really possible now) I really can't
resist or let's say, he really force his hands in, then am I
considered a cheap or loose girl??
From what you guys read from my first post, really can tell that he
doesn't really love me?? But it's because of his lust and
'satisfaction' that he's still with me?? Haix. Okay.. But I don't
wish to leave him. Maybe you guys are right, love isn't like that.
And yes, I know Sex is NOT equal to Love.
Guess I should really go have a good talk with him. How do I
start?? By telling him to stop touching me in the future? Starting
to wonder if I'm supposed to be in AA instead of here. Anyway, to
everyone who posted your comments, I really appreciate it alot.
Thanks. Such great helps. I'm glad I found Sgforums and sought help
here. [/b]
He's too curious. He wants sexual satisfaction more than
anything. He is lusting. Basically, you should educate him about
love.
If you give way, once he got it, he might want more, or he might
not want you anymore.
If he say anything like 'u dont love me' due to you not giving in
to his sexual desires, then just kick his nuts and make sure he
wakes his idea up.
