Hahaha... forbidden fruit !
Yupp.... agree that having a lover who is married is exciting
because of the clandestine meetings that you have in hotels,
cinemas, in the car etc etc. Also, both kind of know that there
will be no strings attached and that it would not last.
However, I once made the mistake of falling in love with a married
woman. It was painful for both, and still is after all these
years.
We should meet ... when I next visit Singapore. You sound an
interesting character.