Im a victim of poor sex

jaimeyeo SG

if u say during my wilder days, i may let u taste how exciting ur sex life can get. haiz...

fornight SG

ok....beside giving BJ, what else does a guy wants a woman to do during sex? Moaning? Talking Dirty?

Have you ever thought that maybe you are not hot enough for her to be exciting in the sex?

dorothy SG

talk with her, tell her what you wish for. She may not know what you really wanted if you are not telling her. Keeping it in your own mind, will not help to improve a relationship.

After all, communication is very important. Very Happy

extra SG

my situation is almost the same as the threadstarter.
but there's nothing much more i can do.
wanna buy her a vibrator or what, she say don't like and don't need.
just live with it.
if you put sex before love, then you can consider to find another gf.
but, if you put love before sex, you will have to try to communicate more with her. if really can't change her, then guess will have to live with the situation.
to me, the definition of having sex is : just to fufil each other lust; can be performed by any 2 horny desperate parties.
definition of make love: initmate activity of a couple to enhance relationship
in this case, you must make up your mind if you are after sex or love liao.
for me, i am still in the process of changing my girl. and i can see she is trying to change for me.
so what i can suggest is that be patience and time will tell.
all is just my opinion

forum_man SG

Hi Extra, glad you understand that type of helpless situation, really grateful someone actually shares my feeling...Of coz i placed love ahead, but as i siad sex is a important part for a guy...

How did you change your girl? Any effective ways. I dun feel like telling her direct to hurt her feelings leh...

vroomvroom SG

You get your friend or your gf's friend to refer your gf to this thread.
once she read it, she will know, she will change.

that is not direct.

extra SG

initially i also think sex is important part of a guy.but eventually, love overcome lust. will take some time to get use to it.
regarding how i change, i tell her how i feel and what i am thinking and what others ( in the prono's ) and other people's experienc in this forums and other forums. explore and search more with her in this area together.
this is a problem of both of us.not her alone. so is best to learn together.
i think to start of with, is to talk to her about it.
i think this helps.
but this method is not applicable to any girl

extra SG

initially i also think sex is important part of a guy.but eventually, love overcome lust. will take some time to get use to it.
regarding how i change, i tell her how i feel and what i am thinking and what others ( in the prono's ) and other people's experienc in this forums and other forums. explore and search more with her in this area together.
this is a problem of both of us.not her alone. so is best to learn together.
i think to start of with, is to talk to her about it.
forgot to mention, you don't tell her so directly.need to twist and turn a big round.just to let her realise her own
i think this helps.
but this method is not applicable to any girl

dcx SG

For your gf who has high sex drive, be glad that when she wans it, she asked you for it, and not other guys....
I would rather satisfy her than any guy will to do to her...apparently during ur sexual activites with her, you feel bored becoz she's not doing much to excite or arouse you..communicate n make her known that you too wan to get satisfied and by making you sexually aroused or making your "bro" hard, you can even satisfy her more...she'll listen and wanna try things out...

Well..when ur bro's hard, try various positions to make her even more pleasant exciting...will then she would always foreplay with your bro...try it...

As for bj, most girls wouldn't love that...tiring for their mouths and they might get "sianz"...however, bj's not neccessary during sexual activities...(Erm...bj's illegal in spore,rite? Update me, pls)

Devil1976 SG

Mr. Green "

Vixxen SG

Communication!!

If you don't say anything, it's not going to change. She's grown to become selfish in bed because she doesn't have to do anything to get you to please her.

Seriously, you should just tell her how you're feeling. It's funny how some people are comfortable enough to sleep with each other, but feel uncomfortable talking about it. A big part of sex has to do with communication and being in tune with each other.

Good luck. xxx

Evil Clown SG

shandower SG

Attack of the pics!

sbst275 SG

Best to get her into climax 1st

losers.inc SG

why why ???? Shocked

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