Maybe some women go for slick men, with sweet words for her and the
local men are not really that sort although a minority are. These
are players and they are into trophies.
I guess most guys are quite tongue tied, and my guy had been asking
his work colleague who had no gf all his life to start learning and
practicing how to communicate with a girl. Its not suggesting the
men go become honey tongued but at least be able to listen and
talk. Its not talking about men's fav topics only, its about
getting to know and appreciate the person.
Although this is condescending, I know that some guys come up and
chat. Then I ask them about themselves and they would go on and on
for 30 to 45 minutes non stop about themselves and how great they
are. At the end, these guys actually think they communicate well
and they think I am interested. I am a very polite person and will
continue the conversation solely focusing on the guy and all topics
will revolve around him only .. its my way of knowing more.
However, I would not reveal much about myself cause I know there is
no point cause, its just a monologue and it will never work.
Women want partners, communicators, lovers, and etc to share. No
one wants to be talked down or treated like secondary. I like men
who don't yabber too much cause sweet talk is just nice to hear
nonsence talk.
