Originally posted by supercharger:
I'm sad... my heart hurts deep within for the many many
individuals here and their partners and the baby caught up in this
mess!
I didnt realise how many post there had been. This was the first I
saw and so I replied as above... but having seen some of the
others... my heart bleeds! 
[b]Please girls, the more physically you give before marriage the
more you loose! that has always been a fact of life... no
matter how much sweet words he uses or what generous and romantic
gestures he uses, they are just that.... nothing but talk! See the
posts and see how each immature unmarried man here have reacted.
They will sooner get ride of that babe and continue to have
sex with you than to consider your feelings and your
wellbeing!
Wake up girls ... wake up! YOu have nothing, they have everything
of you already! you have nothing!!
Guys... will you not wake up too? see the horrible suffering that
comes! See what pain you have caused by your actions see the
suffering?? you are responsible for this! 
I am always very happy around pregnant women bec within her is a
life, a young life! a new life! And the change in the parents and
the joy it brings them is immense - its celebration!
yet ... yet... here we are... in pain and suffering for the same
event! [/b]
Hey there, I hope you won't continue to generalise or stereotype
all guys just because of the few outspoken ones here. Whether
pre-marital sex or abortion is right in the first place is one
issue, but who says that guys don't feel anything when it comes to
abortion. Who says the guy has nothing to lose? If the baby is born
he has a responsibility to look after the baby and give baby a good
life. But if he can't, it's difficult choice to actually agree to
killing off his own flesh and blood.
Pregnancy and abortion does affect the guy emotionally at least,
although not physically. But heck, it's not an easy time for either
of them.
You keep talking about how the girl loses out this and that, spare
a thought for the guy too. He didn't want it to happen too. Of
course I'm not saying all guys are good guys, but don't make
sweeping statements. There are girls themselves who take unwanted
pregnancies and abortions very lightly. They're not the type that
fool around or what, just that they think lightly of it when they
get pregnant. To them it's like ridding an excess flesh.
Just recently, I got to know this guy who had just overcome an
abortion with his girlfriend. It was a trying time for both of them
and it leaves both guy and girl with emotional scars for life. The
guy still cries when he thinks about the daugther he almost had.
And he feels sorry that there was no way he could bring up the
child.
Not all guys are [email protected]
