Hi, I chanced upon this forum, and decided to open up my heart
here.
I met my wife 9 years, and we got married 4 years ago. We were
quite happily married, but I was hiding a dark secret from her, I
was heavily in debt from stock market losses. My debts were rising
quickly, till I had problems servicing it. Out of desperation, I
took out some loans in my wife's name (means forging her
signature). But no matter how hard I worked, never seemed to clear
them.
In Oct this year, I finally had enough. I came clean about my
debts. My wife was shocked. What was worse was that she found out I
forged her signature before I can tell her. She was livid. She
packed her bags and left home 2 weeks later.
It's been 2 months since she left home. She has told me that it is
impossible for her to trust anyone again, and I have wasted her
youth, and destroyed her dreams. She mentioned that we are
finished.
I had apologised to her, her parents and have sought for
forgiveness. That was the only thing I did wrong in the last 9
years, and i really regretted it. I only committed the folly out of
desperation. Why can't she forgive me?
Also, she said that there was no chance for us to get back
together, yet she is not taking any actions to serve me the divorce
petition.. why is that so? Could that mean that there is a ray of
hope for me?
I love her too dearly to let her go, but I know she has been hurt
terribly. What can I do to remedy this situation? 
I hope for some sincere sharing here...
Many thanks.
