I don't agree the point wherby you are rich and plenty of girls
will fall for you no matter how you look. I have 2 friends who are
so damn filthy rich that if you marry them you can live like a tai
tai and go to which ever country club that catches your fancy in SG
and deck yourself with whatever jewellery you want.
Tanglin club, Raffles Town Club, Cricket Club...you name it! They
are really nice people but they are still single because they don't
look the best? They have a rich social life but no gf. I guess
maybe because they don't dress rich enough? And no, they don't play
the field as well.
Anyways, I'm so sick of posts like this. Call it materialistic or
whatever, but it is a very realistic world we are living in
today.
Just imagine if you're a girl and not a guy, and 2 great guys go
after you. One a doctor and one a rubbish collector. Which would
you choose? I don't deny the fact that I will go to the doctor.
With him, my future is secure. Doesn't mean that I will be
dependent on him but at least we can ensure our kids have a better
future and I don't have to convince everyone that he is really
hardworking and won't sponge off me. Trust me its not easy
convincing parents and relatives!
There is also another point to consider and that is girls like to
have face too! Not only guys! Guys want a pretty gf as a trophey
and a successful guy is like a trophey to a girl too!
The thing now is that with higher education, girls would want
someone on par with them or even better then them (call it the cave
man mentaility but that's how things go) Well the guy can have a
slightly lowly education but the gap between their thinking cannot
be too different (I hate to say this but lower educated ppl do see
things differently) Even the circle of friends you have are
different! and if a girl has lower education, she hopes to have a
husband with much higher education so that she can have a better
life. So what happens is that all the girls go for the grads and
that leaves the blue collar workers behind.
As well, you guys are free to think that SG girls are
materialistic, selfish, hypocritical whatever, because usually its
the pot calling the kettle black. Anyway, if you can't get a girl,
pls don't be a sour grape and start the SG girl bashing which I
think is more then enough in this forum. Go ahead and go after your
foreign mei mei for sex and whatever.
