hey man, from your post. i can understand you feel damn blardy
lousy right now. and probably it's been going on for quite some
time. you tell me that it's sad to be ugly. fair enough, if that is
how you feel. but lemme also say that you feel lousy coz you think
you are lousy.
if you're always so pessimistic like that, then it shows in the way
you behave, you know? you are less sociable than you would like to
be, right? do you shy away from meeting new people coz you're
afraid they might not like you? somehow this mentality will
manifest in your actions, and the expressions you wear on your
face. and hence you might appear to be less friendly than you
really are. maybe you are a kind person, but people think you are
not because you wear a severe expression all the time.
I would say people are more than their looks. You read sgforums...
so many threads about yandao kias hooking up with normal looking
gals and vice versa. There must be other qualities in a person
besides the looks. Also, there are other things in life besides
girls, right or not.
This way of thinking is adversely affecting your life. Pls do not
persist in thinking this way anymore. You can help yourself! There
are other good things about you besides your looks.
Why must you torture yourself by focusing on the fact that you are
being unfairly treated because of your looks?
Don't!
Think positively. You are more than your looks.
So wat if girls don't ogle at you? No prob. You think they feel
disgusted when you look at them, aiyah, girls mostly are like that
when they can feel guys are mentally undressing them. Try not to
sweat over this kinda matters, ok, dude?
When you think more positively, you will appear to be a "nicer"
person, more like the person probably are. And you will be able to
make friends more easily. So you should take that step.
Think positive, dude. No matter what sheeeet comes your way, shrug
it off. coz life is full of sheeeet. everyone is the same. dun let
it get you down.
Dun worry, be happy.
