Originally posted by SumOne:
It's [b]neither a girl thing nor a guy thing. It happens
both ways that the girl never gives in or the guy never gives in.
If you ask me, HUMANS are the ones who are weird.
The reason why there is a misconception that guys have a bigger
tendancy not to give in is because, the girls who get this kind of
treatment will complain about it to their friends. Guys who
suffer this kind of treatment will keep quiet and suffer in
silence. THIS is an ego thing.
It may or may not be true, but your boyfriend may be thinking of
breaking with you, especially if he's really unhappy in the
relationship. So this could be the best way of 'not seeing each
other' anymore.
Sometimes, it's not about who's wrong or who's right. Doesn't
matter who's ego, if you treasure the person then call the
person. It doesn't mean you're admiting you're wrong, you
just simply miss the person and want to talk to him or her
again.
If the person ends up taking you for granted, then it's no point
holding onto such a relationship is there? At least you know you
tried.[/b]
I totally agree. If you really do love one another, you would
want to correct each other at the same time acknowledge your own
faults. Then move on. Realising a mistake can take time. A really
long time. You may not know it but sometimes he/she will think of
what you said over and over, and try to reason with it.
