I’m offering you the advice based on my own personal
experiences. I have friends and pals who have been in your shoes.
Some were lucky, the rest were not. I had men under my command
during my ns days. One of my men under me, he was only 18, he was
getting married. His wife was 21. Reason for marriage? You guessed
it. One of my officers, I thought he was so much wiser. Boy, was I
wrong. Older than me, same sh|t. Its stupid loh I tell you.