Haven't been following this thread and thankfully I haven't.
Only went to read the last two to three pages and form what I see,
only ditzy is giving any good contructive comments.
Somehow Mr Shaunlaw, I get the feeling you're more interested in
flaming and agitating Mr Goh here but that's my opinion. True, you
can post anything you want. No matter how wicked, how insulting,
how spiteful. But if you say you want to help the girl, I don't see
how flaming him would help.
Can't you see he's bugged about the matter? Flaming him like that
won't help. You're doing more harm than good by making him more
worked up over the issue.
If he's as wicked as you say, he would have just broken up with her
and leave her to deal with the baby alone. So at least he's seeing
through the matter with her.
You need to think further as well, it's not simply just keeping the
baby and starting a family, such a decision is for life. Moreover,
if he really can't make her happy, and if he really doesn't love
her, they may feel misereable together next time. And with a baby
to look after, things will get worse.
